Why is it that when someone challenges a traditional teaching/practice, he is often labeled as “divisive” or a “troublemaker,” and is summarily dismissed? It may be true that the individual has a divisive attitude or is acting in a troublesome manner, but the attitude in which he dissents or questions a particular doctrine/practice is separate from the arguments he presents against it. Someone may be the biggest jerk on the planet, but their attitude has nothing to do with whether their arguments are valid, and their beliefs correct. Simply pointing out their bad attitude does not answer the question of what is true, nor does it excuse us from interacting with their arguments. Labeling and dismissing those who question the mainstream view is often just a power play, usually employed by those without a rebutting argument. It’s a way of avoiding discussion, and having to defend their own point of view.
We always need to be open to the possibility that the person who challenges some traditional teaching/practice may be right, and the traditional teaching/practice may be wrong. If he is right, then he would not be divisive, but a unifier. Unifying what you may ask? Unifying the church with truth. What divides the church is not the person who challenges a particular teaching, but the false teaching itself. We often determine who the divisive party is by counting heads, but this is fallacious. Truth is determined by reasons, not head counts. As William Durant said, “Truth always originates in a minority of one, and every custom begins as a broken precedent.” Indeed, if truth was determined by head count, then those of us who hold to a Unitarian view of God must be mistaken, because our view is a minority view in Christendom. We ought to remember that before we crucify those among us who question an accepted view.
I think part of the reason we tend to dismiss dissenters is because there is this prevailing attitude among us that “we have the truth.” I agree that we have the truth in a basic sense, but this does not mean we have all the truth. We do not. There is always more to learn, and always areas of thought that we need to either change or refine. If we recognize our continued room for intellectual and spiritual growth, and the possibility that we might be mistaken in some of our beliefs, then we are only doing ourselves a disservice by shooting down those who question the mainstream. Let’s hear the dissenters out. They may have something to teach us.
July 24, 2009 at 3:27 am
Another thing to add is never to deride someone for asking about a particular view. In my church, my minister often goes very defensive when I challenge his view. Ultimately, I now go to a different church’s minister for serious questions as they reason the argument out.
This makes me take the latter minister more serious and to me, a more authorative person.
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July 24, 2009 at 2:42 pm
I agree. We should welcome questions and challenges. It gives us an opportunity to clarify our views, and offer more pointed persuasion. And of course, there is always the possibility that we are wrong, and will be helped by the questioner! I actually get nervous if no one is challenging me. That tells me they either aren’t thinking on their own, or they are keeping their objections to themselves. That’s why I invite people to raise objections to what I am saying, or ask for clarification.
Jason
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July 29, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Another contributing factor to this problem is that the “leaders” in the modern day church aren’t challenging the congregants to become students of the scriptures. Our church culture in the West appears to be very dull in the area of studying and embrassing doctrine. From personal experience the bar has been set so low that as soon as you bring the scriptures to any dialog or debate you are automatically labeled “legalistic”, “pharisee”, “wanna be scholar”, all are terms that I have been labeled with. This is sad. I thought that personal study and research of the scriptures were supposed to be the standard or the foundation. But I guess when the “leadership” handles doctrine so loosely then what else do we expect, than for the sheep to follow the hirelings to the same end.
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July 29, 2009 at 4:27 pm
truthofgod,
I agree. Modern Christendom, as expressed in the typical congregation, is so shallow when it comes to doctrine that anyone who wants to raise doctrinal concerns seems like a visitor from another planet.
In my own denomination, this is not quite the problem. We often take strong and plentiful doctrinal stands, but unfortunately too few of our churches actually teach doctrine (they just proclaim it). They know what they are supposed to believe, but not why they believe it. So when someone challenges a point of doctrine (even if the minister is right and the saint wrong), the saint is demonized rather than answered. This is counter-productive to spiritual growth.
Jason
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July 30, 2009 at 7:36 am
I agree 100%…And the end result is that we have many sincere seekers of truth groaping in the dark searching for answers. The sad thing is that the pastors (shephards) are supposed to be the earthly guides for the sheep. But if I can’t go to my pastor for questioning with out being ostracized, then how can I learn? What’s the purpose of TRUE fellowship if I can’t ask questions? In my situation i have 3 small children (ages 3,4,5)were i’m in the process of teaching them the foundation of life (ex. There is a creator of all things who is God, This God is all knowing, all seeing…etc), the basic things starting from Genesis 1. My 5 year old is already beginning to ask alot of questions regarding what God is like. Now if I resort to ignoring her questions or chastising her for asking questions, then eventually she will become discouraged. However, if i love her and am concerned for her soul that she mature in knowledge, then not only will i not discourage her, actually i will encourge her to ask questions. I bring this up because i think it should be the same way with the leadership. If they possess the knowledge that the claim and they truely have the love of the people in their hearts, then why is it so burdensome to address questions?….. Oh well, time to get off of my soap box..lol
God bless.
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July 31, 2009 at 7:24 am
truthofgod,
If you or anyone is being ostracized for asking their Pastor questions, there is a problem in the leadership of the church. I have seen this problem before and it is not healthy for any church to not openly communicate with their leadership.
At it’s worst it could be a sign of control and abuse of Pastoral authority. Obviously we must always hold the leadership in high regard and with due respect given. But they must also do the same to every Saint in the church. We are all held accountable first and foremost to the Word of God because we serve the Lord and not Man.
So whether it be doctrinal issues or other issues, the men of God in positions of leading the flock must be approachable and reasonable. Anything else could be a sign that there is a pastoral abuse issue in the church. And that must be dealt with.
God Bless.
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August 2, 2009 at 7:43 pm
Jason,
Generally speaking, if someone can not handle being questioned (regardless of attitude, though it’s certainly easier to respond to a polite question), then they’re either insecure positionally or personally.
In most cases, there is such a lack of teaching (of even elemetary principles), questioning is the only way to provoke thought.
OK, now you have my two bits worth.
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August 4, 2009 at 1:19 pm
Darren,
True. It does evince an insecurity. In addition to the two you noted (personally, positionally), I would add intellectually. Many of them simply do not have the goods with which to answer the questions, or to respond to the challenges. And when you don’t have the answers, you can always resort to what you do have: your authority.
Jason
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