In September I wrote about our tendency to justify the religious traditions and belief system we find ourselves in. Things we would not believe, and evidence we would not be persuaded by if we were on the outside looking in, somehow seem so believable and persuasive when we are on the inside looking out. As someone once said, the easiest person to deceive is yourself. I think all of us are guilty of doing so in one matter or another. There are strong social and emotional motivations for justifying the beliefs we were raised with, or the beliefs those in our social community collectively hold. The cost of denying them is often too high to assess them as objectively as we should, and might otherwise do if we belonged to a different tradition.
I was reflecting further on this today as I was reading the attempts of a New Testament scholar to justify monism (the belief that man is only physical—he has no soul) from the Bible. Such a position is so evidently contradicted by Scripture as to be near-laughable. “How could anyone believe such a thing?,” I thought to myself. Then I began to reflect on other attempts to justify positions that so manifestly contradict Biblical teaching. There are those who attempt to argue that the Bible is neutral toward, or even positive about homosexuality. Others argue that Jesus is a created deity. The list could go on.
Why do people believe the things they do, and why are they persuaded by (what appears to most outsiders) such flimsy evidence? As I’ve already said, two such reasons are social and emotional. Another reason may be financial. Sometimes careers and reputations are on the line. If changing your belief would result in the loss of your livelihood, you are more likely to persuade yourself that your current belief is right even if it is not warranted by the evidence. Or if someone has spent their life advancing certain ideas, and have a reputation for doing so, they may be reluctant to admit they were wrong, preferring to continue in their belief even if it’s not well-evidenced.
This happens in science quite a bit. Someone comes up with a theory, spends years working to prove it, only to find the evidence is running in another direction. Do they immediately jump ship and follow the evidence to where it’s leading? Not usually. Instead, they try to justify their theory using every ad hoc explanation they can think of. Too much time, money, and reputation has been invested to just abandon the ship. Like a captain, sometimes they’ll go down with their ship, maintaining their theory until their dying day. Others will jump ship only when the evidence against them is so strong that their livelihood and reputation will be ruined if they don’t.
The same can be true of those in ministry. If you have pastored a church for 25 years, and you have always taught X (and did so with an extra pounding of the pulpit), it can be very difficult 25 years later to admit to those following your leadership that you have been wrong all those years. There is a fear that those in the congregation will lose respect for you, begin to question other teachings, doubt your leadership abilities, or worst of all, leave.
In the way of a personal example, I believe the rapture will occur at the 2nd coming of Christ following the tribulation. At one time, however, I was a pre-tribber. I cut my spiritual teeth on eschatology, and that eschatology was thoroughly pre-trib. Not only did I think the Bible taught a pre-trib rapture; I wanted a pre-trib rapture to be true. I didn’t want to go through the tribulation. My good friend William Arnold, however, became convinced that the rapture would take place after the tribulation, and sought to persuade me of this. We had many conversations on the topic. Slowly but surely all of my arguments for the pre-trib rapture disappeared, and the arguments for a post-trib rapture mounted. But I wasn’t going down without a fight! So long as I had one or two arguments for a pre-trib rapture remaining in my holster, I was holding on (for dear life)! And hold on I did, for approximately a year. I still remember the day when my last major argument for a pre-trib rapture was shown to be false. I yelled out, “This sucks! I am post-trib!” Reluctantly, I followed the evidence where it led. My commitment to truth prevailed over my historical, emotional, and social attachment to the pre-trib doctrine, but it wasn’t easy for me to let those considerations go. I relate my story because I think it is typical of human beings, and illustrates just how difficult it can be to persuade people to change their minds once they’ve made them up.
Why was it that I was so adamant on the pre-trib doctrine? Part of it was the fact that I was saved in a church that believed and taught it (social). Furthermore, the belief was emotionally significant to me. Finally, I was given reasons to believe it was true. The combination of these three elements made it very difficult for me to give up the belief.
Based on my own experience, as well as observations I have made about others’, I have formed a hypothesis. The first part of my hypothesis is that people are less objective when relationships, emotions, ego, and finances are tied to a belief. Getting me to change my views on global warming would be a lot easier than getting Al Gore to change his, because he has more at stake in the game than I do (money, reputation, relationships).
The second part of my hypothesis is that once people have become persuaded by a certain belief, it is very difficult to change that belief. In essence, whatever view you were first persuaded of, you’ll usually retain and defend it to the grave. The emphasis here is on persuasion, and this requires rational evidence. If my belief in pre-trib was only predicated on the fact that my church believed it (social reasons), or that I had an emotional affinity for the belief, it probably would have been much easier for my friend to convince me of the post-trib position. But because I had studied out the pre-trib doctrine, and learned reasons for thinking it to be true, my belief was fortified. The lesson to be learned here is that in general, the first position for which you find good reasons to believe it, will generally be the position you’ll always hold come hell or high water.
If my observations and hypothesis is true, this has significant implications for the church. For those who know me or have followed this blog for any length of time will know, my number one complaint about the church is the lack of teaching. We often do a good job of proclaiming what it is that we should believe, but a horrible job explaining why we should believe those things. We are told God exists, the Bible is reliable, abortion is wrong, and Jesus is the only way, but little or no justification is offered on behalf of those beliefs. Children in particular, will usually accept such beliefs as true, if for no other reason because they trust the authorities who are assuring them of their truth. Of course, social pressure helps too!
But what happens when little Johnnie goes off to college and hears reasons to believe God doesn’t exist, the Bible is not reliable, abortion is good, and Jesus is just one way among many? I’ll tell you what happens: Johnnie will struggle. Johnnie may even go through a crisis of faith. Some kids manage to hold on to their faith, but do so only with a nagging sense of doubt and/or cognitive dissonance. Other kids will just abandon their Christian faith on the basis of the evidence, and it won’t be that hard. Why? Because they never had good reason to believe Christianity was true in the first place. But now, for the first time ever, they are being provided reasons to believe X, and those reasons point away from their childhood faith.
Remember, whatever view you are first persuaded of is usually the view you’ll retain and defend to the grave. In this case, the first view Johnnie was actually persuaded of was a non-Christian view. Once he has been persuaded away from the faith, it will be very difficult to ever convince him to come back to his Christian faith. Even if apologetic arguments are presented to him that serve to challenge his new belief and provide evidence for Christianity, they will be viewed with suspicion. In his eyes the established position is the anti-Christian one. All other views are would-be competitors, and must prove themselves worthy to compete. In his mind, the anti-Christian view will always have a leg-up on the competition. Christianity is the under-dog.
I’ve seen this play out in the lives of people I know. They were never provided with reasons to believe the Christian faith or certain Christian doctrines. Then, one day their beliefs are challenged, and they find themselves dumb-founded. While they don’t have any reasons to think their beliefs are true, the non-Christian has both reasons to think Christianity is wrong, as well as reasons to think their non-Christian beliefs are right. Who are you going to believe? Those who never provided you with evidence, or those who do?
The lesson is this: don’t let non-Christians get to our kids first. It ought not be the case that our kids hear the arguments against the reliability of the Bible before they hear the arguments for its reliability from the church! The time to teach kids why abortion is wrong is not after they get pregnant, but before they get pregnant. The time to teach our kids the evidence for God’s existence is not after they are caused to question it, but before they are caused to question it. We must be pro-active in this fight, inoculating our kids before they are exposed to error. Doing so may prevent them from falling prey to its venom. It’s much easier to prevent sickness than it is to cure those who are sick. Once they are sick, the risk of fatality increases exponentially. Likewise, it is much easier to prevent our kids from being taken in my false ideas than it is to convince them of the veracity of Christian truth claims after they’ve been persuaded of a different view.
I know, people will say that kids don’t want to hear about “all this stuff.” Kids want to have fun. I have to respectfully disagree. Some of the most profound questions I get asked come from kids, not adults. Kids are thinkers, and they are thinking about God and truth. Kids are also the biggest targets of anti-Christian propaganda. No one needs Christian apologetics more than our kids, and no one wants it more than our kids. They are starving for knowledge, and when it is provided for them in the right manner, they’ll eat it up! If kids people tend to stick with the first belief they find to be well-evidenced, let’s make sure it’s Christianity.
January 20, 2010 at 9:17 am
Great post, Jason. It is not enough to teach our children Bible stories and “hope” that they will still believe them when they grow up. We need to give them sound reasons for embracing the existence of God, the historical reliability of the New Testament, and the bodily resurrection of Jesus–which together warrant the conclusion that Jesus is God, and therefore everything that He taught is true and authoritative, including the truth and authority of the Scriptures as a whole.
Atheists constantly pound away at the foundation of Christianity–the Word of God. By contrast, we spend way too much time and effort dealing with cultural symptoms, rather than attacking the foundation of the modern secular system–autonomous human reason. Education indoctrinates all of us into a certain way of thinking about the world; those of us who recognize this must do all that we can to equip the next generation to resist it.
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January 20, 2010 at 12:17 pm
So much you’ve said here that is so well-stated and is identifying with people like myself. Particularly when you emphasize the reasons that some will never have the courage to admit they are wrong (in some cases, the consequences can be fatal for others following). This is why it’s important to correctly lay the foundation and even afterward to be humble and open to discussion and questions. The moment we lose that, we’ve killed the life of a generation.
p.s. I understood that Monism definitely has many adherents that believe in a soul. They just don’t compartmentalize man as body, soul, spirit. Man is one whole unit that may be comprised of those things.
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January 20, 2010 at 12:23 pm
Jason, I’ve made the same observations recently that you noted in your introduction concerning the challenges and pressures for people to not consider the alternative that they could be wrong. One thing you mentioned, money, is an ammoral vice that is at the center, unfortuantely, of many of our problems.
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January 20, 2010 at 12:38 pm
Aletheist,
You’re spot-on. While I do not believe that one must have rational evidence for their faith to be valid, if we want to innoculate people against skeptical attacks on their faith, and equip them to turn such instances into opportunities to defend the Gospel (evangelism), we need to equip them with answers. As I’ve said before, if there are answers out there, why not take the time to discover them!
Jason
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January 20, 2010 at 12:56 pm
James Wilder,
I’m glad this resonated with you.
I think it’s a terminology issue. Usually monism refers to anthropologies that deny man an immaterial component to his being (or conversely, only accept an immaterial component). But sometimes those who stress the unity of the immaterial and material components in man are called monists (sometimes the view is called holism). But I think that confuses things. Dualism is a much better word, perhaps with a qualifer of “integrated dualism” or something like that.
Jason
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January 20, 2010 at 4:41 pm
Jason, have you reconsidered social media? You’d make a good follow. Good way to promote your blog as well.
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January 20, 2010 at 8:54 pm
I became an atheist in the 9th grade because a teacher taught Darwinism convincingly and I’d only experienced dead Christianity in the Roman Catholic church in which I was raised.
Do you know of any good apologetic material for kids?
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January 20, 2010 at 9:58 pm
Most interesting. Bravo! What happened to you is the trend these days. Many are now swapping pretrib for midtrib, prewrath, or posttrib. And the reason for much of this is the newly found evidence about the long hidden history of the pretrib view. Several Google articles are helpful: “Pretrib Rapture Diehards,” “Pretrib Hypocrisy,” “Appendix F: Thou Shalt Not Steal,” “Edward Irving is Unnerving,” and “Pretrib Rapture Dishonesty.” BTW, there’s a recent one I spotted on the “End Times Passover” blog (dated Dec. 29th) hosted by media star Joe Ortiz. It is titled “Pretrib Expert John Walvoord Melts Ice.” Great reads. John
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January 21, 2010 at 7:10 am
Very, very good. Oh, how right you are. Let us love the truth over our traditions, and let us take our children and young people seriously. So many in youth ministry that I know are believing that xBoxes, videos, coffee-bars, and concert-like worship services are going to be relevant for rescuing this generation and keeping them “in church.” Or the older version of pizza, lock-ins, and Gospel shout-downs. I like it all but it is not the answer. It is teaching. While so many are hunting for the key to relevance and effective ministry, it is plain as day in Scripture: “take heed to the doctrine (teaching).”
So, use all the best tools, build the coffee-bar and be as cool as you can be naturally, but, by God, teach, and teach with passion, from the Scriptures, be as persuasive as you can, like you believe it, it’s true, and someone’s life depends on it. And tackle the hard stuff that so many are afraid is too deep. The young people will love it because the hard stuff includes all those really good questions they have rolling around in their minds at that age but don’t know who or when to ask. And that’ll work because that’s the way God intends to work, through His Word.
BTW, isn’t it a silly notion to argue that anything taught in Scripture would be too deep to explore with high-school kids who are sitting in 6 periods of everything from american literature to chemistry to pre-calculus and trig classes during the day? Come on! Who are we underestimating here? We’re probably just afraid we have to learn something new ourselves!
Whoops…you got me going.
Chad
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January 21, 2010 at 1:05 pm
Keep going Chad! You’re exactly right. I like your point about these kids already tackling tough subjects in school. And I think you are right in your assessment as to why people say kids don’t need this: it would mean they (the adults) would have to learn an entirely new subject in order to teach the kids. I’ve made the observation before about studying the Biblical languages: the only people I hear who claim that it’s not necessary/beneficial, are those who do not know them. Likewise, I’ve never heard someone who is knowledgeable in apologetics claim that kids don’t need (or won’t benefit from) apologetics. It’s always those who do not know apologetics who make this absurd claim. If claims against Christianity can cause our kids to doubt or even give up their faith, then they would benefit from hearing the evidence for Christianity, and being taught what is wrong with anti-Christian objections.
Jason
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January 21, 2010 at 1:24 pm
Carol,
I think all of Lee Strobel’s series of “Case for…” books are great for kids. I would also recommend “Apologetics for a New Generation” by Sean McDowell.
Jason
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January 21, 2010 at 3:24 pm
My favorite general apologetics book (so far) has one of the best titles ever–_I Don’t Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist_, by Geisler and Turek. It is probably not well-suited for young children, but would probably be fine for high-schoolers, and even bright middle-schoolers.
The popular evangelical assumption is that we lose our kids to secularism when they go off to college, but some Barna research suggests that most are already gone by then. They grow up learning about “religion” at church and “reality” in school; we have to show them early on that this is a false dichotomy.
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January 21, 2010 at 3:47 pm
Aletheist,
I agree. It’s one of my all-time favorite well-rounded apologetic books, but I was hesitant to list it for kids. But I agree with you that it is suitable for some.
I also agree with your second point. I often say that many youth are just captive sinners. They are either not regenerate and/or do not really love God. They sit on our pews because their parents make them. Consider Carol. She lost her faith in 9th grade. I just finished reading Antony Flew’s book on how he became a deist, and he recounts how although he was raised in a preacher’s home, he became an atheist at 15. My niece, 14, is an atheist. Kids are making life-long religious decisions in junior high and high school. We can’t wait until they become adults to hit them with the heavy artilery. While we’re sitting around fearful that they aren’t interested in the intellect, or not capable of grasping such matters, they are contemplating such matters and considering the evidence against Christianity! It reminds me of parents who are afraid to address the topic of pre-marital sex with their kids, not realizing that they are already involved in it. They waited too long, and then it was too late. We can’t be too late when it comes to our kids. We’ve got to train them early. One of my friends has an apologetics curriculum for kids as young as 5! It’s simple, but it’s laying a foundation.
Jason
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January 21, 2010 at 5:02 pm
[…] impact speaker from Stand to Reason, relates a story that typifies the point I was making in Getting to our Kids First: After my final teaching session, the son approached me, quickly launching into a laundry list of […]
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January 27, 2010 at 6:50 am
Jason,
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January 27, 2010 at 10:00 am
He and the head of the kids Sunday School department developed it themselves, so it’s not available anywhere for purchase. I could probably get the notes, however, and email them to you. I’ve been wanting to see the curriculum myself!
Jason
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January 28, 2010 at 6:35 am
If it isn’t too much trouble I’d love to get this into my Sunday School department. We have science lab in Sunday School and the kids love it! Of course it has a scriptural point to the experiment.
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December 2, 2010 at 1:12 pm
I couldnt agree with you more. Kids should be taught *before* they are adults, and may I add that they should be taught by their own parents. Duet 11:19 Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
I think some would be shocked at the conversations my husband and I have with our children, but like you said I want them to hear it here first, in the context of what brings glory to God and how can we avoid/embrace this?
I pray none of my children will ever attend a secular school, I homeschool them and am excited to see all the many resources and opportunities online if they do need *higher education*. Hard to immerse a young person in a culture of Godlessness(college) and expect them to maintain the Faith.*****Luke 6:40A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher.*****
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March 29, 2011 at 5:11 pm
[…] it would result in fewer spiritual surgeries (or casualties) down the road. It’s always much easier to prevent the fires of doubt than to put out a blaze once it has started. While some youth will […]
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March 30, 2011 at 8:20 am
Hi:
Did you ever get the cirriculum for children mentioned above? I’d love to see it if you did.
Thanks!
John
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March 30, 2011 at 9:46 am
Yes, I will email it to you.
Jason
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