That is the dreaded question we all face from time to time.How do we respond to it?Greg Koukl has offered some helpful insights.
First, we should point out that Christianity does not teach that people go to hell because they don’t believe in Jesus.The reason people go to hell is because they are guilty of wrong behavior, not wrong belief.They are condemned already.Belief is the only thing that will prevent them from experiencing the natural consequences of their behavior.Sin is like a terminal disease: if it is not treated it will eventually kill you.Those who die of an untreated disease do not die because they haven’t visited the doctor, but because they have a disease.Likewise, people do not die of sin because they have not visited Dr. Jesus, but because they have a spiritual disease.Jesus is the one who holds the cure for their disease.By not accepting the cure, they choose to die in their sinful disease.
How can we communicate this to unbelievers?First, we should be sure to avoid giving a simple “yes” or “no” answer to this question.The reason for this is tactical, not rhetorical.A simple “yes” answer makes the Christian look like a judgmental bigot, and all too often the non-Christian will immediately pounce on you for your response, allowing you little chance to explain your answer.So it’s best to give an explanation as your answer.Here’s how this approach might look in action:
Non-believer: “So do you believe I’m going to hell?”
Believer: “Do you think people who commit moral crimes ought to be punished?Justice demands that people who are guilty of wrongdoing be punished for their crimes.The message of Christianity is that those guilty of moral crimes ought to be punished for those crimes unless they have been pardoned.God has provided such a pardon in Jesus Christ.He is the only answer to our sin problem because He—and only He—paid the penalty for our crimes.We can either take that pardon and go free, or refuse it and stand alone before God to pay for our own crimes such as they are.We will be judged fairly, but justice will prevail.
“The pertinent question, then, is whether or not you have committed any moral crimes.All of us have.That’s the bad news.The good news is that we can be pardoned for those crimes by putting our trust in Jesus, and accepting what He did on our behalf.Are you willing to accept His pardon?”
I hope this tactical approach proves helpful in your own evangelistic efforts.Not only will it take the edge off of an uncomfortable question, but it will also explain the essence of the Gospel in the process.
April 13, 2006 at 10:44 am
I think that is awesome!
The only caveat I see is this… I think a lot of people don’t believe they have committed “moral” crimes worthy of a “death” sentence. So fairness would come into play. In my case, I was a pretty good teenager – I didn’t drink or smoke – I wasn’t promiscuous – I pretty much obeyed my parents – I was a good student – I was a Boy Scout – I had good friends – Except for my sometimes “foul” mouth, I didn’t consider myself a “bad” person worthy of Hell. But I did believe in God, and His sovereignty. My hunger for God, and my desire to know Him, forced me to accept my guilt as a sinner. In my heart I knew that I did not meet God’s standards.
I guess what I’m saying is that unless the person is “open” to God being the one who sets up the rules of “goodness” and “badness” – you probably would have a difficult time convincing them they are bound for “hell”.
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April 13, 2006 at 12:14 pm
I’m sure you are aware that the tactic did not mention the punishment being “death,” but rather hell. The Bible describes this as the second death, but that is internal lingo.
What I think you may be getting at is one aspect of the problem of hell: whether the severity (including length) of the punishment is just. Does the punishment fit the crime. That is a genuine objection, and deserving of a well-thought out response. I simply did not deal with that in this post.
What we need to get the person to see first is that breaking God’s moral law warrants moral correction in the form of punishment. Once they recognize that they are deserving of at least some punishment, they will see there is a problem that needs to be corrected.
One of the ways to show someone just how much of a problem they have (showing them that there is no such thing as a “little sinner”) is to do some math. If we sinned only one time per day (an EXTREMELY conservative estimate if the person has any concept at all about what sin means) between ages 10 and 60, they will have broken God’s law 18,250 times. What judge would tell a citizen they are basically good because they only broke the law 18,250 times, and let them go without punishing them for their crimes? None. Neither will God. Luckily, He has provided a pardon in Jesus Christ.
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April 18, 2006 at 4:50 pm
I think Aoki was “almost” born (flesh birth) a Christian. I just wonder if he had not been a Christian….
In his case, between ages 10 and 60
he would have broken God’s law
4,562.50 times (25% liberal estimate).
In my case, I was an average teenager – I drank and smoked – I wasn’t promiscuous (not by choice)- I disobeyed my parents
a few times – I almost never did my homework – I was a boy scout (Ha !!) – I had marginal friends (we drank beer)- Definitely had a foul mouth.
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March 17, 2022 at 4:56 am
Had this conversation recently with a friend of mine. Only he was asking about his daughter. He asked if she would go to hell for being a nonbeliever. Hey I also ask if she would go to heaven if she died. Period My position is similar to what you stated however: if you don’t believe in God and you don’t believe In hell why would you want to go to heaven? Her position is that she’s an a atheist and his position is that he is a agnostic!
His mother is a devout COGIc Baptist Who believes in baptism of the Holy Ghost etc. however she’s convinced that it’s OK to smoke pot because of a cancer diagnosis but she feels she has to hide it because people would not understand
So there’s a lot of misunderstanding here amongst this family. I can make a judgment but my position was not to judge him or his daughter or his mother. Simply allowing him to understand that if you believe in God and you believe in his promises there’s definitely a hereafter that you want to attend to i.e. “heaven”. It is current life is not all there is and when you die, there would be life after death with Christ
Is very different speaking to somebody who didn’t believe in God but wanted to go to heaven. I am of the thought that if you don’t believe in God why would you want to go to heaven? What does it matter.
This is not all that we discussed but by the end of our conversation I think he understood that his mom was on the right track she just needed more than she currently has, he believes in a higher power but not sure how that plays a part in his life. And his daughter doesn’t believe at all because of all the injustice in the world but if nothing else I convinced him that God did not put sin and evil in this world. In the end there will be justice but the time is not yet for him to step in and provide justice for every wrong.
He’s giving everyone an opportunity to make it right. They have a choice to do so or face the consequences of their immoral acts!
I explain very clearly that I was not the one to judge their belief there unbelief their actions nor their actions. I also think it takes a lot more to believe then it does to just discount the fact that there is a God.
Thanks for your platform to discuss this because it’s not that easy to persuade somebody or even convince them, that has a much better life serving God and doing right things, rather than going through life without considering the cost of our behavior. I’m not perfect. But I do believe I have a God who is more interested in me striving to be better and make a better world around me than he is in punishing me.
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March 17, 2022 at 7:06 pm
Interesting observation about not believing in God, but wanting to think you’ll go to heaven if there is one. If someone is truly an atheist, they shouldn’t care that we think they’ll go to hell. I think they care because, deep down, they know there is a God and an afterlife and want to have the assurance that they’ll go to the “good place.”
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