Scott McKnight alerted me to a couple of posts by philosopher Jeff Cook on the topic of desire and reason in evangelism (1,2). Cook contends that “the debate about God today is not about what’s reasonable—it is almost entirely about preferences and desire.” That doesn’t mean he is opposed to using reason or providing evidence for Christianity in our evangelism of the lost. He simply believes that this alone will not persuade most people because it is not rationality alone that causes them to reject Christianity.
Cook proposes that if people are going to be persuaded by our reasons for Christianity, they must first want there to be a God. In his words, “Wanting God to exist is more important than believing in God. By ‘more important,’ I mean desire is more crucial to the transformation of a person’s heart, more helpful in moving them toward faith in Christ, and more instrumental in one’s ‘salvation’ than right thinking. … It seems then that enticing the passions and wills of those who do not follow Christ is far more important than targeting their intellect with arguments for God’s existence. Showing that God is desirable will be the primary target of the successful 21st century apologist, for wanting God to exist opens highways for subpar apologetics; yet a closed heart will not here [sic] the voice of wisdom.”
I’ve experienced the truth about the role of desire in persuasion myself recently. My wife is into eating healthy…again. She gave me a long list of reasons to abandon my current diet and adopt a new one. While I found myself agreeing with her on all that she said, at the end of the day I still planned to continue in my regular eating habits. It wasn’t that I thought she was wrong, and it wasn’t that I think my current eating habits are healthy enough. I know I don’t eat the way I should, but I still didn’t change my behavior despite her excellent apologetic for health. Why? Because there was nothing about the healthy lifestyle that I found appealing. It seems like drudgery. And I am not willing to stop eating enormous amounts of ice-cream straight from the container every night! So while I agreed with her rationally, I could not agree with her emotionally or volitionally. I think this is the place many unbelievers are in. They hear our arguments, but they have reasons they don’t want what we believe to be true, and thus will not allow themselves to be convinced by our reasons and arguments. They will always find some “out” that will allow them to continue in their present beliefs.
So we need to do more than merely present the evidence for God’s existence and the truth of Christianity; we have to make God and the Gospel attractive to them. We need to make them want it to be true. As Blaise Pascal wrote, ““Men despise religion. They hate it and are afraid it may be true. The cure for this is first to show that religion is not contrary to reason, but worthy of reverence and respect. Next make it attractive, make good men wish it were true, and then show that it is” (Pensees 12). The question is how we do so. Cook wrote a book on the topic, and plans to do some more posts on it as well, so stay tuned (or buy the book). And by all means, if you are a Christian apologist, read Cook’s posts. They could change your whole perspective and approach.
August 6, 2012 at 2:20 pm
This is an important insight. I’ll definitely continue on to Cook’s…
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August 7, 2012 at 3:57 am
I would equate a person’s desire to find Christ with the power of the Holy Ghost drawing them to Christ. Yet even one drawn by the Holy Ghost may still resist from lack of desire.
We had a woman in church this past Sunday and you could see the Spirit working in her. You could see she was being moved, yet the lack of desire, hunger, wasn’t there. She was nibbling but not ready to feast.
Good post. Thanks for sharing it.
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August 7, 2012 at 6:48 am
I get this all the time with friends.
The best example is informing them of the miracles friends of mine are performing regularly when out in India, Mozambique etc, show them the “finger of God” dvd, tell them about the miracles at “New Wine” and how much God has done for me and others etc. Their response? “That’s nice” !?!? Seriously?!?!
The problem is that if they think about it, they know that their lifestyle needs to change. Something they refuse to countenance, and so they refuse to even consider the notion.
Same as your diet. Knowing it to be true but putting it away into the depths of your mind as you refuse to give up your icecream! The enemy has done well to trivialise life and death in such a way!!
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August 7, 2012 at 8:50 am
I can sort of agree with this if you are talking about the ones who don’t have a different set of beliefs. But I wholeheartedly disagree for those who have a different, but firm set of beliefs. The ones you are talking about are the Christians by association only. The ones who aren’t really Christians, they just call themselves that because of tradition, family history, etc. The ones who only know of Christianity or nothing, and that is their only two choices. A lot of people relate God to the Bible, and leave room for nothing else. If they are not in church, those people don’t want to commit to being good, as per the Bible, because it is too hard. God and religion are two different things though. Most people do not even think of it in those terms. It is either being Godly, or choosing to have fun instead of commiting to God. In this case, it is not that they don’t want to believe in God, they just don’t want to stop enjoying life on their own terms.
I myself am different, I am not an apathetic follower, or an agnostic. I want there to be a God, and definitely believe in God, but not the Bible. It’s not a lack of commitment, it’s not a lack of desire, I just believe the Bible to be man made.
As for the ones who don’t believe in a God, or believe in a different God, those are different. It’s not about lack of commitment or desire, it’s about lack of belief, and that is one type that will always be hard to convert. If a Christian asks me about my belief, why I don’t go to church, they have zero chance of a conversion. And it has nothing to do with my desire to believe in God. I will always believe in God, I just have no desire to try to believe in the fantastical, and fabulous stories of the Bible. I think most Atheists and nonbelievers would agree.
I think they way this comes across, it sounds demeaning to nonreligious people. It’s kinda like saying, it’s not that they don’t believe, they just lack the effort. That most people aren’t religious because they lack the desire, or will. Like we just choose to be evil and demonic because it is easier. That is far from the truth. No matter how much I want to believe, I cannot talk myself into believing in something I don’t. It’s not about desire, it’s about belief. Because most nonreligious people choose to be nonreligious because they truly don’t believe in the Bible.
For the freethinkers and Atheists this article not true at all. It may be true for the Apathetics, Agnostics and the Christians by association only, but not for the ones who are truly committed to a different set of beliefs.
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September 3, 2012 at 1:03 pm
Jason W.:
All intellectual pursuits are a product of desire. Some pursue philosophy, others politics, others religion, others music, others art, others sports medicine and so on.
The curious thing is that only those who call themselves atheists and freethinkers insist on living in denial of this point that would generally be conceded in another context. The anger, the intellectual arrogance and sarcasm that pops up in their comments all over the net and in debates belie the alleged disinterest.
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