Steve Chalke, a promiment evangelical minister in the UK, has come out in favor of monogamous, same-sex relationships. He has a written a 5,000 word essay to explain himself. I have purposely delayed reporting on this issue (which hit the news a few weeks ago) until I could read his essay so as to avoid a knee-jerk reaction to the news. Having read it, I can’t say I am surprised by his arguments. It’s the same case liberal theologians make time and time again. He begins by an appeal to emotion (inclusion, justice, reconciliation), and then claims that we have misunderstood the Biblical texts traditionally understood as prohibitions against homosex.
Emotional appeals
When we refuse to make room for gay people to live in loving, stable relationships, we consign them to lives of loneliness, secrecy, fear and even of deceit.
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Too often, those who seek to enter an exclusive, same-sex relationship have found themselves stigmatised and excluded by the Church. I have come to believe this is an injustice and out of step with God’s character as seen through Christ.
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Why am I so passionate about this issue? Because people’s health and safety as well as their lives are at stake. Numerous studies show that suicide rates among gay people, especially young people, are comparatively high.
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I believe that when we treat homosexual people as pariahs and push them outside our communities and churches; when we blame them for who they are; when we deny them our blessing on their commitment to lifelong, faithful relationships, we make them doubt whether they are children of God, made in his image.
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The pastoral situation, however, is still more pressing than this. The issue of any church’s attitudes to homosexuality has huge impact, not only on those individuals who are lesbian or gay, but also on their parents, siblings, wider families, friends, colleagues and neighbours. Tragically, I know well a family torn apart (in an all too typical scenario) because the Christian parents of a daughter entering a Civil Partnership – as a result of the teaching they had received – refused to attend the ceremony. Their daughter – also a committed Christian – who had taken years to find the courage to be honest with them about her sexuality (for fear of their response) felt betrayed. Brothers and sister took different sides. Neighbours, work colleagues, church members and friends all joined in. Thus a rift was created which has left in its wake much sadness and pain, a catalogue of broken or strained relationships and some very deep regrets.What I have found most remarkable, however, is the fact that for all the rejection that so many gay people face from churches, their inner sense of spirituality and commitment to Christ still pushes them to want to belong.
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Rather than condemn and exclude, can we dare to create an environment for homosexual people where issues of self-esteem and wellbeing can be talked about; where the virtues of loyalty, respect, interdependence and faithfulness can be nurtured, and where exclusive and permanent same-sex relationships can be supported?
While I sympathize with those who experience same-sex attraction, emotions are not reliable gauges for determining what is right and wrong. To determine the moral good we need to apply our best thinking, not our best feeling.
To see how flimsy Chalke’s emotional appeal is as an argument for committed same-sex relationships, replace “gay” in the above quotes with “adult incest.” Would the same conclusion follow? No. So the real issue is not inclusion, belonging, stigma, family cohesion, suicide, self-esteem, respect, or well-being. The real issue is whether or not homosex is moral behavior. Chalke recognizes this, which is why he goes on to examine the Biblical data. That’s a great place to start. The problem is that he appears to twist the Biblical data to fit a conclusion he came to independently of the Biblical text, namely that homosex is morally good in the context of faithful, loving relationships.
Chalke’s Biblical analysis
Chalke contends that the creation account in Genesis, and the statement in Genesis 2:24 that a man should leave his parents and be united to his wife in a one-flesh bond is not an ordinance, but a norm. Norms do not exclude other possible expressions.
He dismisses the story of the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah by simply appealing to scholars that understand the reason for their destruction to be “the indulgence, indifference to others and social injustice of their inhabitants,” not homosexuality.
He waves away the Levitical injunctions against homosexuality by saying that if we follow this law, then we must also follow the law that prohibited disabled people from worshipping God (Leviticus 21:16-23). While he’s right to point out that the Mosaic Law did not distinguish between civil, religious, and moral laws as we often do today, that doesn’t mean that the Law cannot be properly categorized as such. Those living under the Mosaic Law may not have always been able to clearly distinguish between a law reflecting God’s moral nature and a purely ceremonial law (and even if they could, it would not change the fact that they were bound to keep all the laws just the same), but we can. Since the New Covenant only contains God’s moral laws, if a law appearing in the Mosaic Law is not repeated in the New Covenant, then it must not be a moral law. Since the NT prohibits homosexuality, we know this law – unlike the law regarding the handicapped – was a moral law that is binding in every covenant. While we are no longer under the Mosaic Law, we still appeal to the Mosaic Law’s proscription against homosex do demonstrate God’s transcovenantal disapproval with this behavior. Chalke should be ashamed of himself for trying to dismiss the import of the Levitical prohibition in such a manner.
When he comes to the NT passages (Rom 1:26-27; 1 Cor 6:9-11; 1 Tim 1:9-11) he merely states that there is disagreement as to how they should be interpreted. He argues that the Biblical authors could not have been condemning loving, committed homosexual unions because they had no concept of such a relationship. They were only aware of wild, uncommitted, promiscuous relationships. Robert Gagnon has demonstrated this notion to be false, citing several examples in the ancient world of committed, loving same-sex relationships, so Chalke’s point fails.
He also claims that Paul had idolatrous worship practices in mind, particularly in Romans 1. But if this were the case, why didn’t Paul condemn sex between men and women as well since heterosex as well as homosex was used in temple worship? Paul’s problem was only with homosex, and the reason is clear: it goes against God’s design for human sexuality.
Twisted logic
As with many other pro-gay interpreters of the Bible, Chalke argues that we need to take a fresh look at the Bible’s teaching on homosexuality similar to how many have taken a fresh look at other topics such as slavery and women ministers. He claims that the Bible seems to clearly prohibit women from serving in the ministry, and yet many conservative Christians have found a way to interpret the Bible in such a way so as to permit women ministers. Why, then, can’t we do the same for same-sex relationships?
This is twisted logic. Essentially he is arguing that if we’re going to be dishonest with Scripture on one topic, then why not be dishonest with another! Clearly the move should be in the opposite direction. We should seek to be faithful to Scripture on all topics.
Conclusion
Chalke is right to point out that the church needs to change its attitude toward gay people, and do a better job interacting with and helping those who experience same-sex attraction, but he is wrong to suggest that this should include our joyful acceptance and embrace of homosex as something to be celebrated as equal to heterosex. Scripture is our authority, and his reinterpretations of Scripture do not pass muster. The Bible clearly condemns homosex, and so must we.
Love is not the same as acceptance. If we truly want to show homosexuals love, we must warn them against God’s judgment. We must be clear that their behavior is displeasing to God, and that the very nature of their relationships is harmful. Accepting their behavior as morally good is not loving, but hateful, because we are failing to tell them the truth that their immoral behavior will reap negative consequences.
I have no doubt that this trend will continue. More and more Evangelicals will cave to the social and political pressure to normalize homosex, just as many have caved to the pressure to ordain women and accept abortion. More and more Christians will see homosexuality as morally benign, and will seek ways of interpreting Scripture that will conform Scripture to their beliefs. More than ever the church must be faithful to Scripture, and faithful to our God. We must stand up for what we know is right, even if that results in social ridicule. Those who want to be the friend of God cannot live to please men. We must take a stand for truth.
News articles:
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February 6, 2013 at 3:55 pm
The Religious can never be content within the human experience until they control the lowest common denominator, SEX. They have always done it; they continue to do it and of course will always continue to do it because Religion is out of control right now precisely because too many people have been too diplomatic for too long. If we’d had the balls to do some straight talking years ago when we should have and put this insulting nonsense in it’s rightful place, with astrology and palmistry we wouldn’t even been talking about this now. We’d be doing something more useful with our time.
But religion is more than just a belief, religion wants to impose a universal morality which is why it has always attracted the kind of person who thinks other people’s private lives are their business. And giving respect to this mentality is exactly what’s got us into the mess that we’re in. And God has has absolutely nothing to do because all Gods, all religion, all holy books all writings, culture, laws and norms derive from a person!
We’ve given religion ideas that are above its station and we persuaded it that it’s something it’s not. When the truth is that faith is nothing more than the deliberate suspension of disbelief. It’s an act of will. It’s not a state of grace; it’s a state of choice. Because without evidence, you’ve got no reason to believe apart from your willingness to believe.
Faith by definition is unexamined, so in that sense it has to be among the shallowest of experiences and yet if it could it would regulate every action, every word and thought of every single person on this planet because, let’s not forget, even an impure thought is a sin.
Homosexuality is a religious term to denigrate a sect of humanity; there is no such thing as homosexuality; there is only human sexuality because sexuality is something between your ears not something between your legs. Unfortunately religion does not have the capacity to see beyond anything other than between the legs, Religion has a severe case of myopia; AKA, dogma. Dogma put Galileo on trial for heresy, banned his books for 200 years and kept him under house arrest for the rest of his life after forcing him to recant his agreement with Copernicus that the earth moves around the sun and not that the sun moves around the earth based on scripture interpretation.
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February 6, 2013 at 7:52 pm
It truly sickens me to see people twist the Scriptures to support their own agendas, especially when it allows people to live in sin. I am not a homophob, but I am against the sin of homosexuality. I have a good friend who is bisexual, as well as relatives who are gay. Homophobia is sorely misdefined by liberals (doesn’t “phobia” imply fear?). If you instruct people to sin, then you will be called least in the Kingdom of Heaven!
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February 7, 2013 at 12:27 am
Its utterly irrelevant what “religion “or “dogma” did or didnt do–God said homosexuality is sin. The question is will I follow God or will I twist the Bible to force it to become MY word instead of THE word–of GOD .
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February 7, 2013 at 4:03 am
An excellent reply to Steve Chalks stand.
Am saddened at Steve Chalks stand on this issue. Many young people could be very confused over this as he is very respected.
We will soon be saying its Ok to have sex before marriage and the word fornication is out of date.
While we should never shun the any one who is gay or lesbian can we honestly say that homosexual union is a God approved practice?
The claim it within a loving relationship. Does that make it right? People who live together are in a loving relationship.
God alone will have the last word on this. If we stick close to Him He will make it plain. Darkness cannot exist where there is light.
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February 7, 2013 at 6:56 am
I suspect that his motivation is family menbers and or homosexual money / perks. It is clear that the Bible does not support his stated view.
As you said Jason, Dr. Robert Gagnon does a fine job exploring and responding to these kinds of arguments.
http://www.robgagnon.net/
Dr. James White also has a good book out that deals intelligently with these kinds of arguments (The Same Sex Controversy).
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February 7, 2013 at 9:54 am
Dylan:
“If you instruct people to sin, then you will be called least in the Kingdom of Heaven!” Jesus speaking about the ten commandments; Can you please tell me which of the ten commandments, specifically, says that homosexuality is a sin?
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February 7, 2013 at 9:59 am
sonnybardin:
Actually religion and dogma is exactly what is relevant here; what is irrelevant is god because God is merely a caricature concept to credit or debit accordingly for the behavior of mankind, and exactly like religion and dogma God, religion, dogma, all derive from a person! You say that Gods says it is a sin but God never said any such thing, man said it was sin and man said he was speaking for God and I too can say the same thing. I am Speaking for God too!
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February 7, 2013 at 10:35 am
The appeal to emotion is a clever trick of the enemy and is often used to imitate true love. Love without the truth of God’s Word is empty and in vain.
While unbelievers console themselves and feel they are holding to a higher moral standard, believers cringe as they watch God’s creative purpose for man and woman violated.
You see, as believers, we want to see God glorified as our #1 objective. If that is at the expense of Man, so be it. God must be glorified.
Naz
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February 7, 2013 at 10:57 pm
It’s quite fashionable these days to compromise. Makes one more popular.
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February 8, 2013 at 6:01 am
Sad to see Steve Chalke take this approach really.
Well argued Jason.
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February 8, 2013 at 10:34 pm
Leo, if humans (and not God) were really in charge of the creation of morality, then, in the end, the only morality humans would create is Do As Thou Wilt a la Aleister Crowley. Essentially Freud’s Pleasure Principle to the Nth degree.
There is no other real reason for humanity, on the whole, to try and legislate and restrict human behavior, whether in themselves, or for others except, perhaps, for self-preservation. Otherwise, there must be a source outside of us, that causes us to want to systematically determine what is morally right and true for the human race. Otherwise, our morality is beastly, discriminate, and wholly inadequate to accomplish anything.
But the fact that there is something that leads the majority of people toward a systematic restraint so that we don’t just do whatever we want, so that we don’t fulfill whatever hedonistic pleasure that comes to mind, even so that instead, we attempt altruistic endeavors beyond selfish preservation, should indicate that only something apart from us is influencing the way we should live and act.
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February 10, 2013 at 7:26 am
Imagine that you believe that it’s moral for a person to kill a person if that person has committed a great evil (eg, murder, rape, child molestation). What if some of societies leaders told people that it’s perfectly legal to do so? Not that the Supreme Court should interpret the Constitution to permit such acts, but telling the public that the law says X when the law clearly says Y.
It never happens. And the reason it never happens is that the reality of the law would come into the picture. If you listened to a “leaders” claiming it’s okay to kill a murderer, you would end up in prison. That’s why there are no such “leaders.” You never see any such ridiculous advice in law or in any other area of life.
If religious leaders truly believed in the God of the Bible, they would never even consider telling people to do things that will cause them to burn in Hell for eternity. Their advice is proof of their disbelief in the Biblical God. They feel free to interpret the scriptures to fit their fantasies because they are confident that the scriptures are false.
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February 10, 2013 at 8:21 am
It’s not enough to redefine Christianity to include female preachers and gays. Christianity should also make room for people of all beliefs. While certain scriptures seem to limit Christianity to those who believe in and/or follow Christ, a more enlightened interpretation would allow people of all religions and creeds to be Christians. Christ’s example showed love for all of humankind, and that trumps any and all scriptures limiting Christianity to only some.
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February 12, 2013 at 4:36 pm
The Christian religion and worldview is objectivist at heart. It holds that there are truths about the spiritual world. Truth by its very nature is exclusivistic. If the truth is A, then all non-A is excluded from truth. You cannot read the Bible and walk away thinking the God of Christianity is a pluralist. That’s pure nonsense.
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February 12, 2013 at 11:00 pm
Substitute Christian for any other religious organization name and it reads exactly the same. There is no God of Christianity anymore than there is a God of islam, a God of Egypt, a God of the Casino; the true God of this earth is Bingo the Money God…..Revelation confirms this with 666, the number, and goes on to reveal the Name and the Mark of Bingo the Money God. Your own bible, for the love of Pete, explains this in detail.
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February 25, 2013 at 9:31 am
Leo, you’re right, Money is god in this world.
I know money can solve a lot of earthly problems but it can’t save you from death.
How do you figure you’re going to get around that ?
Naz
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February 25, 2013 at 10:49 am
Naz:
So good to hear from you after so many weeks of absence..
lol
Actually, I personally believe in the age old dream of immortality as stated in Revelation: And Good will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.”
However, while it is written in Revelation, I do believe it is there because it has been the dream of every man woman and child since the embrace of intellectual knowledge BUT I add the caveat NOT by SUPERNATURAL means as the Biblical reference might be inferred; rather through knowledge by diligent research.
When all disease is eliminated as the smallpox disease was eradicated and other diseases are not far behind; then, shall the reign of immortality be upon us.
Lest any nigglers read and balk at this, I am not talking about accidents for those who defy gravity or take risks beyond their ability to remedy if they tempt the limits of the physical laws of the universe; I am not talking about lifestyle anomalies like smoking, drugs or excessive alcohol consumption. I am talking about the elimination of diseases that cause alzheimers, Parkinson, Cancer, MS, heart disease and organ failure, genetic mutations, malfunctions and parasitic, viral, bacteria and pathogen ill health.
Regarding Bingo the Money God, few Christians realize the significance of 666 ( many think it is code ) uh uh. It is MONEY. The Mark of the beast? Many think it too is a code or a tattoo or a micro chip, totally wrong, It too is a reference to MONEY. And the Name of the beast? MONEY again. And I often wonder why people are so masterful at complicating the issue that they interpret the bible references in Revelation as anything BUT MONEY! When Revelation scripture clearly says 666 is MONEY, the Mark is clearly a reference to MONEY and the Name too is referencing MONEY.
If you need further explanation I’ll be glad to give you a more detail understanding of why 666 in Revelation refers only to MONEY, why the Mark refers only to MONEY and why the Name refers only to MONEY and Revelation scripture itself supports what I just wrote here; albeit, very few Christians can connect scriptures because they are literal midgets espousing giant misinterpretations about almost everything they read, from the miracles that are easily explainable to the resurrection that was impossible but just as easily explainable, the supernatural notwithstanding.
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